You should always remember that your reasons for wanting a divorce are valid. Divorce is often the inevitable result of a marriage that’s constantly dealing with resentment, fear, betrayal, and incompatibility. If you feel like you’ve lost all love or trust in your spouse, there’s nothing wrong with pursuing a divorce and prioritizing your own happiness. What comes after that is entirely up to you. An Omaha divorce lawyer can help you determine a course of action.
Even if your divorce is uncontested, the overall process can be long, grueling, and emotional. There’s no telling how long your divorce will take, but you should always prepare for a potentially lengthy process. The whole thing will take far longer if it’s contested, and it will likely be considerably more expensive, too. It’s important that you retain an experienced divorce lawyer to help you build your case and ensure no one takes advantage of you during this time.
Hiring the Right Lawyer
As you navigate what might be uncharted territory for you, it’s vital that you retain the services of an experienced divorce lawyer who can help you protect yourself. If your spouse decides to make things difficult for you, you will want the right kind of legal help by your side. At Stange Law Firm, our multi-state legal team has considerable experience helping countless clients work through their divorces. We can bring empathy, focus, and knowledge to your divorce.
You may want to fully understand the rates of marriage and divorce in your state. Not only can these statistics make you feel less alone in your decision, but they might even further validate it. According to recent statistics from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), Nebraska’s divorce rate is low at 2.6 per 1,000 residents as of 2023. The marriage rate is around 52%, which is quite high, according to information collected by World Population Review.
There’s nothing wrong with asking for help when you feel you need it, and dealing with the emotional fallout of a divorce can be difficult for one to handle alone. You should reach out to a local divorce support group like DivorceCare or Building Bridges Divorce Class. Having someone to talk to about your fears and concerns can be liberating, especially if those people have been through something similar. A safe space to talk can be a good asset.
What Comes After Divorce
Depending on your situation, the divorce process may be overwhelming, complex, and confusing. Once it’s finalized, you may be on your own for the first time in years, perhaps even decades. It’s understandable to have no clue where to even start rebuilding your life after divorce. You don’t want to wallow in self-pity or lash out at the people in your life. That’s not healthy. It’s important to prioritize healthy coping mechanisms and focus on moving forward:
- One thing that a divorce can provide you is the opportunity to rediscover who you really are outside of your marriage. If your marriage was toxic and one-sided, you may have had your self-confidence eroded gradually over many years. Now that you’re free of that situation, you can start rebuilding your identity. Learn a skill, rediscover an old hobby, reconnect with old friends, and even consider getting back in the dating scene.
- Getting out of a bad marriage can also show you exactly what you don’t want in a partner. If you’ve spent years balancing your spouse’s moods and avoiding arguments, you may be tuned in to a potential partner’s red flags, which can make them easier to avoid. Consider prioritizing certain positive traits, such as loyalty or independence, in a potential partner. Don’t compromise your own values.
FAQs
Q: Can Divorce Be a Good Thing?
A: Yes, divorce can often be a good thing. Strong marriages built on love, support, and fidelity generally don’t end up in divorce court. If your marriage has ended, you have an opportunity to figure things out in a new light. Now that you’re out of a bad situation, you can rebuild your sense of identity, focus on personal goals, and determine exactly what you want from your next relationship. You may even want to spend some time alone first.
Q: How Long Will My Divorce Take to Finalize?
A: There’s no telling how long it will take your divorce to finalize. Everyone’s divorce case is different. Each one has unique contributing factors that can directly influence the amount of time it will take to finalize. Some of the more common factors include the willingness of both partners to reach a compromise and your lawyer’s own experience handling cases like yours, particularly their negotiation skills. Ultimately, your divorce will take as long as it needs.
Q: What Shouldn’t I Do in a Divorce?
A: There are many behaviors and actions you don’t want to take during a divorce, as they can extend the process or severely hurt your position. First and foremost, be as honest as you possibly can. Don’t lie to your lawyer and don’t lie to the court. Never try to hide assets from your spouse or the court. Don’t speak ill of your spouse to your children, as that can be seen as a form of parental alienation. Follow your lawyer’s advice and be the bigger person.
Q: Should I Hire a Lawyer?
A: Yes, you should hire a lawyer. Divorces can often be unpredictable, especially if they are contested. You never know exactly what you could be facing in court. It’s always a good idea to be as prepared as you can, and that means hiring an experienced divorce lawyer to represent your interests and protect you from being taken advantage of. A good lawyer can help you solidify your position, advocate for you in court, and prepare you for any setbacks.
Contact a Lawyer Today
The legal team at Stange Law Firm understands exactly what to expect in a divorce case, regardless of whether your divorce is contested or uncontested. Contact us to speak to a member of our team about how we can help and what we can do for you.